You think it starts in teens — the cigarettes, the parties, the “come on, just try it” moments. But in today’s hyper-connected India, peer pressure begins shockingly early.
According to a 2019 study by Child Rights and You (CRY), 32% of children aged 10–13 reported feeling pressure to behave a certain way to “fit in”. This pressure can be about brands, gadgets, gaming, or social media trends.
Recognise Early Signs
Sudden changes in behavior, obsession with fitting in, or hiding things can be red flags. If your child goes from cricket to pretending to like PUBG “because everyone plays it,” that’s social influence at work.
Teach “Choice Muscles”
Role-play “what would you do if…” scenarios. Help them build the inner script to say no, or to walk away — skills that make them resilient.
Build Self-Worth at Home
The more secure and valued a child feels at home, the less likely they are to seek approval outside. Celebrate uniqueness — “It’s cool you don’t like what everyone else does.”
Don’t Mock Their Friends
Criticizing their circle can backfire. Instead, ask about group dynamics, what makes a good friend, and what pressures they face.
Normalize Mistakes
If they cave once, don’t shame them. Talk it through. Let them know courage isn’t about never giving in — it’s about bouncing back stronger.
Your child doesn’t need a bubble. They need a toolkit. And that starts with you.
References:
- CRY (2019). Understanding Peer Pressure Among Indian Children. https://www.cry.org
- NIMHANS (2022). Adolescent Behavior Patterns in Urban India. https://nimhans.ac.in
- UNICEF India (2021). Life Skills Education for Adolescents. https://www.unicef.org/india